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I love vampires - books, movies, TV shows - but I do not like the ones that are mean and ugly - only the nice ones - only the cute ones - Some vampires are nasty and leave you with nothing - and no energy to move forward - There are many kinds of "suck you dry vampires" - stress - people - situations - thoughts - foods -etc. So - in dealing with your health and well being - ask yourself these questions----<br />
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Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-51079367018567792222013-06-23T09:57:00.001-07:002014-04-27T10:21:33.040-07:00 ACHY BREAKY<span class="bqQuoteLink"><a href="http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/k/karllagerf472581.html" title="view quote">The brain is a muscle, and I'm a kind of body-builder.</a></span><br />
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That intense massage the other day has my muscles rebelling - and altho I am achy - I am excited about the "breaky" part - breaking through to a new me - a healthy me - an energetic me - a happy me - and I am making progress ! <br />
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The issue is that we have to first intellectually go about transformation. Karl Lagerfield - a designer for fashion house Chanel stated --- "I suddenly wanted to dress differently, to wear clothes designed by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedi_Slimane" title="Hedi Slimane">Hedi Slimane</a>. But these fashions, modeled by very, very slim boys—and not men my
age—required me to lose at least 40 kg. It took me exactly thirteen
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So what did he do??? He mentally decided to change it up - he changed his mind set - got help from "people in the know" - and that allowed him to reach his goal. I do not know what specific path he took or who his "people in the know" were - but one thing is for sure - he wanted it - thought about - found a way - and did it !<br />
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Use your mind - what is it you desire about your fitness, health and well being? Follow the path "those in the know" have created... change everything by taking this adventure-- Life is amazing - make it so !! <br />
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<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-67587426307059834902013-06-22T09:46:00.003-07:002014-04-27T10:21:55.098-07:00 NOT RUSTING<b>Helen Hayes </b><br />
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This is the way I have been thinking for days now - so much energy - I do have to remember that I cannot go on and on like the energizer bunny - surgery takes a toll and healing is of the utmost importance -so the doc says I do need to find down time - yet I find that each day I have more energy and increased desire to move about and do things - AND - I am not wearing out - This new program is working for me in so many ways --- I am starting to feel like the old me - <br />
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NEVERMORE will I take for granted the fleeting happenings of each day - NEVERMORE will I be too busy to live in the moment or be present for all the gifts that abound - NEVERMORE will I be upset or disenchanted with the messes made because....<br />
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miss the toys left on the floor<br />
miss the sound of barking dogs and crying cats<br />
miss the dirty dish left in the sink<br />
miss the voices of Dora the Explorer and the Chipmunks<br />
miss the call asking if it is OK to come over<br />
miss the laughter that rings through the house<br />
miss the companionship of family living close by<br />
miss the clutter<br />
miss the sweet chaos that life brings when surrounded by those you love<br />
miss the wonderful messes that make up my life <br />
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Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-36313922756278452612013-02-27T10:10:00.002-08:002013-09-01T10:14:20.526-07:00WISHING WEDNESDAY<br />
I love the idea of a WISH TREE - so I made one.. mine is a crafty, gnarly creation made from a paper bag - it suits me !<br />
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The prompt from Jamie Riddler Studios is - How do you wish to nourish yourself? Today I add the word "nourishment" to my tree.<br />
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We tend to think of all that we want to take in and treat ourselves to - but I also believe that nourishing takes on the action of bouncing things away - so it both taking and rejecting<br />
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* playtime<br />
* quiet time<br />
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* sing and play piano<br />
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My three year old grand-daughter made her "nourishment" wishes by pasting things on paper that would make her "feel good"<br />
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You are never too young to wish !!! In case you are wondering - that is a dinosaur tooth and dinosaur toys - She is going to be a scientist - I just feel it !!<br />
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This is my dream-board for today - what is hidden beneath
the snow - all those woo hoo moments that slip or storm by that I ignore or do not notice -- <br />
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When I saw this "doodle" - all I could do was smile. I spent my entire day hearing whispers of "WOO HOO." I was reminded that excitement in life can happen at any time - we need to be open to it - let it surprise us - let it knock the breath out of us - expect it - work for it - follow it - love it -<br />
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I contacted Eric at Wisdom Heart for permission to use this "doodle" - Check out the web site at <a href="http://www.wisdomheart.org/">www.wisdomheart.org. </a><br />
<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-38448474071309076722013-02-22T09:23:00.001-08:002013-09-01T10:12:23.924-07:00THE KEEPSAKE NOTEBOOKWe all have our time machines. Some take us back, they are called memories. Some take us forward, they are called dreams. - <i>Jeremy Irons</i><br />
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My keepsake notebooks are so much fun - I will be giving a local workshop on a summer one-- but my favorite is creating a yearly notebook - This is how mine looks, why I do what I do, and where to find some of the pages I use. <br />
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* One 3 ring notebook with a place to inset front page - This year my cover has the year and my word for the year - FREE - the picture came from a calendar that I received - and google images did the rest - <br />
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* Journal entries - I use notebook paper - I also paste, glue, draw and tape all kinds of things that remind me of the growth and dreams I wish for each year in this area- I use small sticky notes with affirmations, reminders etc--I love sticky notes ! I place the journal section after the calendar --<br />
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* "KEEPING TRACK " -- I put this page after each journal section - these are the titles I track monthly and yearly - yours might/will be different - I leave enough space after each so there is room to write- I experiment with all kinds of colors and fonts just for fun....and at times clip art- I have used this list for the past three years- It is fun to look back and see where there has been growth and dreams fulfilled and what areas remain stagnant and need more attention-- <br />
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LEARNING-READING-EDUCATION<br />
SOCIAL<br />
HEALTH AND FITNESS<br />
JOYS<br />
CREATIVITY<br />
FINANCES<br />
CAREER<br />
HOME<br />
SPIRITUALITY<br />
FAMILY<br />
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*Pocket dividers - I only use 2 - one in the front and one in the back in which I stash things I find or am in the process of doing - half written poems or stories - photos - etc - When time allows I finish writing -tape - or toss- This way my desk is not covered with papers that fly on the floor when the cats decide to help me type!!<br />
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*** WORD FOR THE YEAR - I do several things with this - I use <a href="http://www.wordle.net/">www.wordle.net</a> to create a word<br />
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This year I also included a Monthly Meal planner page to track healthy and inexpensive recipes that are also tasty and fun--not sure I will keep that one going tho -<br />
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I LOVE to personalize - there is never enough room or the right kinds of pages for the specific things I love in store bought items- so creating my own makes me happy - gives me what I need - is an outlet for a little creativity and fun - as well as a gift of memories to the family :)<br />
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peace<br />
understanding<br />
sunshine<br />
smiles<br />
love<br />
laughter<br />
joy<br />
music<br />
creativity<br />
excitement <br />
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"Light shines on shattered glass producing sparkles and hues of illuminating magic..... " <br />
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I am "re-doing" - "renewing" - "revamping" - "finishing" - a booklet I wrote "way back when" for all of us who are searching for our rainbows - wanting to find an intuitive and artistic path - feeling there should and could be another dimension to life - and for all of us who realize that when the sun shines on even the tiniest piece of shattered glass - the light grows and glows and sparkles..... This is a work in progress - I anxiously await the finished product to share - but am enjoying the process of "new light" as well--<br />
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All our journeys are different - While hopes, beliefs and dreams may differ, I am enthused to see all the posts on various blogs that deal with - faith - creativity - music - healing - being kind to yourself - and all the ways that each person stretches and searches for that specific rainbow they call "HOME"......<br />
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<a href="http://http%22//jamieriddlerstudios.ca">http//jamieriddlerstudios.ca</a><br />
<a href="http://www.kristinnoelle.com/">www.kristinnoelle.com</a><br />
<a href="http://behappy.com/">behappy.com</a><br />
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<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-67258346258231001342013-02-17T11:21:00.000-08:002013-02-17T11:21:05.909-08:00EMBRACE LIFE<br />
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What steps do you take to embrace your life?Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-2284771339090910052013-02-13T13:24:00.000-08:002013-09-01T10:14:40.701-07:00WISHCASTING WEDNESDAY<br />
"A man when he wishes, is the master of his fate." Ferrer, Jose<br />
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This Wednesday prompt from Jamie Ridler Studios could be for everyday - all year long...It is a great reminder of what I sometimes put on the back burner as I go through my daily routines. I need to take time to really ponder and think about what my love wishes are - for myself and for others .... so..........<br />
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I wish that I will have the wisdom and creativity to surround myself and others with positive and uplifting energy and love -<br />
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I wish that I will take time to meditate about this daily-<br />
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I wish to love the world by making a difference - no matter how small - a smile - a card - a thank you - picking up litter - planting a tree............ <br />
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I wish to show love to myself by - taking care of this body that houses my being -<br />
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I wish to be open enough to let my creativity fly to new heights<br />
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I wish love to my family - may they find peace and rest in their busy lives<br />
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Actually - I wish to send out love to everyone who reads this and all those who do not :)<br />
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<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-89747426130946399142012-10-04T10:39:00.003-07:002013-01-10T08:44:13.170-08:00Letting Go.... Mourning and Miracles<b><br /></b>
<b>We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us. Joseph Campbell</b><br />
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"Letting go" is a phrase I hear all the time when people are in flux - but the question for me is what am I letting go of? It seems that I tend to want to let go of circumstances and take a break from attempting to "fix" things... after all - these "things" are disrupting the life I dreamed of and/or worked so hard to obtain - but I keep running on fumes and old visions that never materialize.<br />
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Recently I have been forced to look at what "letting go" really means and discovered it is a much longer process than I have practiced or prepared for over the years and requires a great deal of introspection ---- what am I willing to let go of?------ what do I have to let go of?---- what things were not my choice to let go of?---- and just as important ----how am I mourning the loss? I had surgery last week that did not go as well as anticipated. The surgeon realized that my condition is rare - and now - there is a side effect unlike the doctors or I have ever seen. As I sit in bed hour after hour - feeling boredom, pain and the enormous desire to get up and go about my life - I realize that I cannot deal with things as before - I have to rely on others for my care - I realize that my home will not be as I left it - but I feel the deep gratitude for those who are willing to give it their best shot and with love are helping me- I will not be disillusioned that their idea of cleaning or dinner or conversation or care might not be exactly like mine- I am lucky to have those who care enough to do anything and all else takes a back seat - <br />
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So - exactly what are some things in my "letting go" process?<br />
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disappointment - <br />
memories - the way it was<br />
hopes and dreams that may need huge revamping<br />
control<br />
health<br />
desperation<br />
communication the old way <br />
anger<br />
fear<br />
pain<br />
hopelessness <br />
and just about everything else that affects living and past perceptions- <br />
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This is a deep inner dive - but I am making progress - chipping away until the true meaning of the crisis/obstacle/feeling finally appears - I might be disappointed and angry with someone - is the anger because of the way I am handling these events? Am I worried about the choices made and the repercussions - not only by others who are caring for me but by me as well? Am I afraid that something worse will come along? Do I want it to be the way it used to be?.... on and on and on .................each of the answers only brings forth more questions and each question needs to be answered before going on to the next piece of the puzzle. <br />
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Knee jerk reactions are silly and simply do not work - too bad because I am so good at them!! - so I am determined to take my time - be patient and gentle with myself - realize that letting go is time consuming - liberating as well as painful. It can make a hole in my life or make room for new things - it can defeat me or make me grow. In the process I empty out and let go only to be filled with new wonders and miracles. I need to let go of so much as I prepare for another surgery that looms ahead......but on the flip side..... I am anxious to see what will be flowing in even as I mourn all that is gone and lost - I will stay the course - and look forward to the unfolding miracles that I never dreamed existed.<br />
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<b>Once all struggle is grasped, miracles are possible - Mao Tse Tung</b><br />
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<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-66675827075261032292012-08-02T17:47:00.002-07:002012-08-05T08:51:18.005-07:00Rested Radiance<span style="font-size: small;">There is more to life than merely increasing its speed.</span><br />
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Wayne Muller wrote an insightful book on rest - I read <u>Sabbath</u> and find that I continually look back at my notes - recall my thoughts - and then start again. I refer to this book that I bought at a second hand store over and over when I am deeply exhausted physically, mentally and/or spiritually. Sabbath, meaning rest, is crucial to our very being, and we do way too little of it. <br />
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" A 'successful' life has become a violent enterprise. We make war on our own bodies, pushing them beyond their limits; war on our children, because we cannot find enough time to be with them when they are hurt and afraid, and need our company; war on our spirit, because we are too preoccupied to listen to the quiet voices that seek to nourish and refresh us; war on our communities, because we are fearfully protecting what we have, and do not feel safe enough to be kind and generous; war on earth, because we cannot take the time to place our feet on the ground and allow it to feed us, to taste its blessings and give thanks." from Sabbath by Wayne Muller<br />
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Many of us take the time to cook with joy -- knowing that we are providing healthy meals to our families ? Many of us do not - When we are exhausted and time deficient, the drive through is nearby and will have to do. The tradition of meal planning and cooking that were once passed down through the generations are being replaced by bad habits and rushed meals. Is there a way to change this? Do we want to change this?<br />
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We think we are giving our children quality time as we pedal them from school to sports to dance to music - stop for a quick eat on the run and finally home for homework - off to bed and repeat every day- This is draining. What happened to daily talks about our day and our dreams....to sitting at the table and eating or playing games.....Is there a way to do better? Do we want to do better?<br />
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The thought of sitting still (taking it slow) for the sake of renewal is merely a faint whisper. We are too busy - our minds and bodies are racing - there seems to be no time for rest -- so I decided to sit still - and for a task oriented person who loves the hustle and bustle of life - that is quite a challenge. I honestly find it extremely difficult to rest -physically or mentally - but I heard a whisper calling to me - telling me that if I did not take time to deeply ponder - to unconditionally love - to inhale joy - to slow my pace - that my entire being would suffer - and so would the lives of those I love .... I wanted to do better.... <br />
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So - I took the last few months and sat into my issues ...I sat into my dreams and hopes ... I sat through storms and rainbows ... I deeply inhaled and sat with visions and joys ... I sat through sadness and hope ... I sat and sat and sat - and the end result was so much more than I ever expected...... RESTED RADIANCE !!!! I wanted to do better....I did... ..How about you?<br />
<br />Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-56195276781747720102012-04-12T16:33:00.000-07:002012-04-12T16:33:32.074-07:00YOUR SONG"Music takes us out of the actual and whispers to us dim secrets....."<br />
Ralph Waldo Emerson 1803 - 1882<br />
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My song includes---<br />
Carving out times of andante and allegro -<br />
Circumstances and people in legato and staccato-<br />
Challenging minor nuances and sharp projections -<br />
YET - it is by these deviations and resolves that life becomes joyful and full -<br />
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Not long ago I came across the website of Lynn Jericho who offers wonderful, insightful studies with ideas to ponder and encouragement to look deep within..... a specific thought from one of the studies spoke of the gift of music. <br />
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" How do we receive and give melody, rhythm, tone to each other. Can you play the major or minor reality of another? More importantly, can you play your own minor and major keys with equanimity and fierceness? .... Your song, not the song of your family or your friends or your enemies, but the song that is uniquely and joyfully you". Lynn Jericho, Inner Christmas 2011<br />
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Are you playing your own song? <br />
What themes are prevalent in your composition?<br />
What music do others hear when in your presence? <br />
What measures do you want to add? delete? keep the same?<br />
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Take time - dig deep - compose - your way - your path - your music - the world is waiting....Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-31403830176951705732012-03-31T08:28:00.000-07:002012-03-31T08:28:03.008-07:00SIT STILL AND LISTENDuring my morning reading time, I came across this poem. It speaks clearly to what I was thinking when I named this blog - the idea that we miss so many of the "whispers" that come our way because we are too busy - too bored - too tired - too energetic - too emotional - too hungry - too distracted - too happy ............<br />
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I often wonder what pearls of wisdom we miss - how many guiding thoughts we brush aside - how many pieces of our own puzzle we leave out just because we do not sit still and listen....?????<br />
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There will be an invitation.<br />
It will not come tied in ribbons<br />
nor a message streaming down<br />
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There will be no Roman candles<br />
sizzling<br />
nor brilliant colors<br />
exploding overhead.<br />
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Instead there will be a soft<br />
whisper<br />
in your ear,<br />
something in a language<br />
you once knew<br />
and are trying to learn again.<br />
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In order to hear it,<br />
you will need to<br />
put down all your packages,<br />
stop doing everything you are doing<br />
and stand very still<br />
then wait.....until something stirs inside.<br />
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Dorothy WaltersBobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-67688197558637702212012-03-25T17:42:00.003-07:002012-03-25T17:43:56.960-07:00RenovationHave you ever been to a carnival? ----- circling on the Merry-Go-Round - yelling on the MONSTER OF DOOM roller coaster - screaming from fright in the Haunted House - eating junk food - playing games that you rarely win- and seeing odd shapes in those crazy mirrors. You run into people who are easy - people who are loud - people who are fast - people who are slow- people who are rude - people who are mean -people who are nice - - you get the idea. Carnival days are exhausting!<br />
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Sounds like a microcosm of life, doesn't it?<br />
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Round and round we go on the Merry Go Round - making the same mistakes over and over - never getting off to try another path. <br />
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THE MONSTER OF DOOM twists and turns, and in these unexpected and shocking moments we are fearful and scream - BUT we stay on for another ride. <br />
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Does this sound familiar? I wonder why we stick to the "same ole same ole" when we don't move forward and are unhappy with our circumstances? I look at it like the House of Mirrors - nothing seems quite right, yet we keep looking in those same mirrors every day for the answers.<br />
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Why not renovate? - take down the tents, serve different food, replace the games, and design new rides. Change the rules, set different boundaries, and toss out the wiggly mirrors. <br />
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Renovate again - excavate and peel off layers of what doesn't work until you find the wisdom that was buried while you were at the carnival- before you were adorned in anguish, decorated in duties, and reeling in unrealistic responsibilities and expectations. <br />
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Renovation is a life time project if we are open to new thoughts and ideas and willing to change. It is scary to try new ways, because they might not work - but the ""same ole" isn't working either, so why not try? Have courage - be brave - release the fear and dive in -- you might find yourself on a sandy white beach with blue skies and plenty of sunshine -or high in the mountains with fresh air and ski slopes-<br />
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Wherever you end up you will find your vision and yourself and wonder why you ever went to the carnival at all...................Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-83262099677596047032012-03-20T09:44:00.001-07:002012-03-20T09:46:44.249-07:00MAYAN BUCKET LIST - MY LEGACYI recently read an article by Joseph B. Walker entitled "Live Like a Mayan." The article was filled with humor as well as serious thoughts about 2012 and the Mayan calendar -- AND his article inspired me.<br />
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Needless to say, all the hype about the world coming to an end by colliding with the planet "Nibiru" verses the rebuttal stating that we are heading towards a new spiritual transformation is a bit daunting and confusing ....if you care about those things at all. I personally find it fascinating. Whatever your take on this, I think it would behoove us to realize that life is indeed short, and that we should live each day as if it were our last. That is not to say that we should skip work -neglect our bills -and go skydiving instead - - I allude to the fact that we are only certain of the moment at hand and how we choose to live it.<br />
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So...I have decided to make a MAYAN BUCKET LIST - It was interesting to see what I decided to put on this list - there are no thrills - no buying new stuff - no seeking fame and fortune. The mere thought of having only one final day gave me inspiration regarding what I desire to leave as my legacy. I have about 150 ideas on my list- so I am hoping that I have more than this one day or one year or one decade ---as I live this marvelous journey called life.<br />
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Life is a gift - everything else is decoration.......What do you want to decorate you life with? faith? kindness? love? laughter? honesty? health? smiles? ........and the list goes on................Bobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6737322884179753698.post-17165253371826501342012-03-14T13:28:00.008-07:002012-03-19T12:10:03.414-07:00MasterpieceWhat kind of world do you want<br />
Think anything<br />
Let's start at the start<br />
Build a masterpiece<br />
Be careful what you wish for<br />
History starts now.... <br />
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The story of your life starts now - it begins anew each day - every day - as long as you live. How many of us have taken the time to think about what "masterpiece" we are building? Is our foundation sturdy or built on flimsy wishful thinking? Are we grateful for all we have, or do we always want more and/or something else? <br />
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My masterpiece has many parts. Family is a very important part of my masterpiece - each member has a room with a window to see the beauty of the world. Each room also has a door that opens and shuts at the discretion of the inhabitant. I know all too well that a shut door could simply mean that a person needs space.... after all, relationships of any kind need space to thrive...even plants do not grow well when crowded! BUT - many times the "doors" are closed and stay closed for what seems like an eternity. When communication breaks down, when judgement raises its nasty head, when we only see the bad and not the light and radiance in others, who would want to live in that house? I wouldn't !<br />
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Communication and unconditional love are so difficult at times, but these two things are what I strive for nor matter "what" and even because of "what" - My front door mat may say WELCOME, but it is what happens inside- between people - because of people - for people - no matter who they are or what they do - no matter what they look like - no matter who they love - no matter whether they live here or are visitors - no matter "what" --<br />
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Families and houses take many forms - My community, my nation, and my planet also house me and are part of my family. My masterpiece includes them all.<br />
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What kind of world do you want? What do you stand for? What are you willing to do and/or sacrifice to make it work? <br />
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Think anything - build a masterpiece - It is never too late......History starts nowBobbihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08828873971720481014noreply@blogger.com1